Hey Ladies,
This book is ridic... I could write like EIGHT blogs on this. Work and school got me busy, and since I don't want to be laid off, I better get back to it. BUT, I wanted to share this clip because I went online to see what men thought about Steve Harvey's "Act Like a Lady" and found this....
These ignant A-holes are mad because they feel like "their secret" is out.....
UNREAL.
PS. Please get a copy of this book if you haven't already read it. I recommend informing yourself of the ignorant thinking out there so that you don't get blindsided.
If you meet any man that sounds like the fools on this clip, please back all the way up....quickly.
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Sounds like your bitter and I understand. Hello, I'm one of the hosts of The Al & Tony Show and I wanted to drop you a line to clear the air. The Al & Tony Show is about an exchange of ideas and thoughts. Yes, we banged the book a little but we also praised it. I would just suggest to you and all who listen to you, that if you don't want to be a bitter, lonely, angry woman, take the time to UNDERSTAND MEN! The game will stop the minute you guys (women) stop trading your tired virgina's for security/money. (That's Prositution). Assholes? Not necessary. Unsympothatic, not at all. Real relationships survive on TRUTH. From a relational aspect, Steve crossed the line in the man book and he needed to know that. Real women don't have to worry about game playing because real men appreicate a relational asset. My question to you is: Are You And Asset? or A Gold Digging Liability.
ReplyDeleteWe'd love to have you on the show, if you'd like to share your position. Hit me at Platinum.djs@hotmail.com
Big Sexy,
In his 1697 book The Mourning Bride, author William Congreve wrote "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." Which is usually translated into "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned". That's what this review sounds like you are. The guys in the Al & Tony Show never claimed to be relationship experts. They simply claim to be "guys".
ReplyDeleteYou called them "Ignant A-holes". "Fools". WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!! That was a bit harsh wasn't it especially since you probably don't know any of them personally. Maybe you SHOULD go on the show and voice your opinion on their viewpoint.
The show is now streamed LIVE via the internet so you may wanna have your i's dotted and your t's crossed if you decide to make an appearance.
To Big Sexy (Platinum.djs@hotmail.com):
ReplyDeleteThis blog (like your show) is about an exchange of ideas and thoughts, so I’m glad we got a different perspective—but I think it would be wise for you to actually open your eyes and realize what the real deal is when it comes to women, men and assets. To suggest that the blogger and her readers are just bitter, gold digging liabilities shows that you’re stuck in a world of music videos and not really seeing reality. Maybe you need to take time to understand women and what’s happening around you – even your man Steve says that financial prosperity is not a shortcoming of women today or something they are flocking to men for. Gold digger? Why does she have to be a lonely gold digger because the book is just a dated-travesty, like your segment about the book?
On the other hand, it was “ignant” to equate dealing with women and the game to being on the frontlines of Iraq. It did seem “ignant” to me to complain that some secret was out, like this whole game isn’t transparent to begin with. Assholes? That’s pretty much what it looked like – because real men aren’t all too worried about keepin up this game as much as they are about keeping their women happy and satisfied. You should probably stick to porkchops cuz you really don’t know too much about women.
And on a final note, please don’t be a bitter old man because nobody’s really checkin for a Big Porkchop or Big Greasy at this stage of the game. Definitely have the blogger come to the show, I’m sure she’d love to share her position. Would definitely be entertaining.
As far as T-Rock…you kinda sexy wit it, ya’ll could swap names :)
Wow, looks like somebody woke up on the wrong side of life. Listen, it is clear that reading is an issue for you, so let me clarify. I neither called or implied that the blogger was a gold digger, I merely asked a question. As for the jabs/insults, not necessary. Adults can share a difference of opinion without de-volving back to the 5th grade.
ReplyDeleteNow......
I used the Iraq analogy because dating is a war, one in which women are losing! With that said, I totally agree with you, there is nothing new under the Sun with regard to how men operate in "The Game", but that in itself validates my thinking. Women have the playbook and still keep getting it wrong. If you don't agree, ask yourself this, how many books do you see, getting this much pub, warning men on the dangers of dating women? NONE! Come on, how many times will you guys (women)keep falling for the "pull my finger" joke.
That leads me to believe that women who struggle with find a good man are either dumb, desperite, naive, or misinformed, which are you?
The bottom line is women have been brainwashed by society. That washing left an image of how a man should eat, walk, and breath. The problem is what women believe and what man ARE is two different things. It's like buying a Ford Focus and expecting it to run like a Corvette, IT JUST AIN'T GOING TO HAPPEN!
Get over yourself. Women are not in control and will never be! On the flip, neither are men. It is the collective men/women relationship that is the real power. Stop watching Oprah, stop listening to men that call you virginas "cookie" and get in the game of understand men. Then take the time to understand your devine importance in how you were created. PLAY YOUR ROLE! Women are not men so stop trying to be. No matter how indepented a woman becomes she will always need a man. We weren't put on this Earth to live alone.
By the way, I'm not concerned about being "checked" for. My wife and childern do an AWSOME job of "checkin" on me.
Big Sexy
P.S. I'll tell Tony there's is another fat girl chasing after him!
It seem as if everyone on this blog needs a HUG, In fact we should all get together and do a group HUG... We would like to invite you to the show to share your views with our audience. Who knows you may make us look good. Hit us up and leave us your information.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the love,
As for Big Sexy. That's why im off the market. because i know how to treat a lady. All WOMAN ARE GIFTS FROM GOD. so stop hating "dough boy"
T-Rock
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!! Y'all going at it on the "www"!! I LUV "OPINION FIGHTS"!!
ReplyDeleteThis is your boy, Comedian J-Raz (IN THE BUILDING!!) of The Al & Tony Show.
I luv the fact that we're speaking so deeply on a book about how to find happiness in your relationship that was put out by a dude (Steve Harvey) that has been divorced twice, has five kids (none of which are by his current wife). As we LUV the fact that the book has been overly praised by a woman (Oprah) that has never been married and probably never will be married. I LUV IT!!
Notice I said the book was "put out by" Steve Harvey because if you wanna get your "Google on" and you look up author Sharon P. Carson, you'll see that the book was originally self-published in 2003 by this woman.
So now what do we do?
Men who wanna believe Steve wrote the book will say he's violating the "man code". Women who want to believe a woman wrote it will say, "Damn right, Sista. Tell it like it is!!"
How bout a group hug (as T-Rock suggested), some warm Cocoa, and a group singing of the R. Kelly version of the National Anthem (the Steppers Remix)??
Peace,
Comedian J-Raz
To J. MAR This is the information that i was hoping that you had. J Raz just dropped some knowledge on the topic and had we known this information before the show, you would have really hated us. The fact is Steve is our dude, he is one of the funniest cats i know (next to J raz,& Ayanna) but if you step out on the front line you have to be able to answer some tough questions:
ReplyDelete1. What is your point of reference?
2. What inspired you?
3. How are you living this?
And an asshole reporter would ask:
1. How does this pertain to your past wives?
You may call this person the national inquirer
And Master Yoda would say:
"if follow your own set of rules you do. How is it that 2 ex wife's you have"?
Now remember..... Yoda is a jedi Master and the force is strong with him. He would know if you are lying.
The point is can you come on the show to prove you point (that we are ignorant) Because i already know we are ass holes.
T-Rock